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His Healthy Balance

January 13th, 2016

Bob Gillette, MA '07, points out his future home site to Crossroads editor Lauren Jefferson. Gillette plans to rent the house to Center for Justice and Peacebuilding students, and keep a small basement apartment for his own visits.

Bob Gillette, MA ’07, points out his future home site to Crossroads editor Lauren Jefferson. Gillette plans to rent the house to Center for Justice and Peacebuilding students, and keep a small basement apartment for his own visits.

Retired lawyer and judge Robert “Bob” Gillette, MA 鈥07 (con颅flict transformation) travels a triangle within Virginia these days, from his home city of Suffolk to a mountaintop ranch in Floyd County to a soon-to-be-built-upon piece of land outside Har颅risonburg, just over the hill from 黑料正能量.

Each place bears a legacy of be颅neficence. In Suffolk, where Gillette practiced law for 36 years, there are the youth athletic fields at Diamond Springs Park and the Suffolk Athletic Associa颅tion that Gillette founded. Nearby, the Nansemond Tribe holds a title to 35 acres of their ancestral land that was purchased and returned to them by Gillette after his CJP practicum experience.

In Floyd County is a rustic cabin and farmland, returned to richness through biodynamic farming, with a conservation easement to protect it in perpetuity; and every six weeks or so, loaves of sour颅dough bread, baked in two earthen ovens and delivered fresh to the 鈥減eople all up and down the road.鈥

EMU every six weeks, Bob Gillette grinds 100 pounds of flour and bakes loaves of sourdough bread in earthen ovens to give away to friends and neighbors.

黑料正能量 every six weeks, Bob Gillette grinds 100 pounds of flour and bakes loaves of sourdough bread in earthen ovens to give away to friends and neighbors.

And in Harrisonburg at 黑料正能量, one Steinway piano and an antique clavicord, the assets of an old coin collection, an endowed scholarship for North Ameri颅can graduate students at the Center for Justice and Peacebuilding in memory of his wife Kay, more happy beneficiaries of his bread deliveries, countless friendships and imminent promise of more fellowship with the CJP community, once the house is built 鈥 and the bread ovens installed.

鈥淓verything I鈥檓 doing now came from opportunity that arose from adversity,鈥 he says. A farm boy who graduated from Randolph-Macon College, Bob met Har颅risonburg native Kay Koontz while he was in law school and she was studying math and music at Westhampton Col颅lege, the women鈥檚 affiliate of University of Richmond. Kay was Bob鈥檚 first Har颅risonburg connection, but the ties grew stronger years later when Bob became a judge, practicing mediation and develop颅ing an interest in restorative justice. That ultimately led him to 黑料正能量 and into Howard Zehr鈥檚 class, around the time Kay was stricken with brain cancer.

鈥淚 was always a good listening judge,鈥 Bob says, 鈥渁nd I respected people who came in front of me, and you see all kinds from the bench, some pretty poor people. Listening attentively is a kind of gift in itself. It鈥檚 an act of love.鈥

While recognizing the good that came through his profession, Bob also says his practice provided the financial means to meet community needs: In the early 鈥70s, as his children became involved in sports, he and a partner purchased land and founded an athletics association that still exists today. After the initial financial investment, Bob describes years of leav颅ing his office and heading straight to the ballfields to maintain and develop the grounds. 鈥淚 had a lot of fun, learned a lot about soil and land, worked with some great people. That was the first time I really learned what a joy it is to give.鈥

Bob鈥檚 philosophy of giving is based in both practicality 鈥 鈥淚鈥檝e never seen a Brinks truck behind a hearse,鈥 he jokes 鈥 and a deep joy in helping others. 鈥淲hy am I here? If it鈥檚 not to help each other, I don鈥檛 know what it is. You give accord颅ing to your ability and the resources the Good Lord allowed us to have. And when you give, it does good in the com颅munity, and the byproduct of seeing that is a wonderful feeling.鈥